The Motherhood Decision Tool

Start with The Motherhood Decision Tool
Then come back here to sit with your results and reflect on what they may be showing you.

Results Interpretation and Reflections

SCORING GUIDE

For most questions:

• First answer = 2 points
• Second answer = 1 point
• Third (or last) answer = 0 points

Add up your score across all scored questions.

RESULTS BREAKDOWN

18–20 → Expansion Feels Aligned

There may be a grounded sense of readiness here.

Your desire feels internally driven,
and your life has some capacity to hold this next step.

That doesn’t mean it will be effortless.
But it does suggest this may be a season of expansion or preparation.

Reflection:
What would it look like to prepare, rather than question?

10–17 → You’re in the In-Between

You’re not lacking readiness.
But this isn’t a full yes yet either.

There may be:

  • energy that needs restoring

  • support that needs strengthening

  • clarity that hasn’t fully landed

This is where many women find themselves.

Reflection:
Am I craving expansion… or more support within what already exists?

0–9 → This May Be a Different Season

There’s clarity in your responses.

Right now, your life may be asking for:

  • stability

  • restoration

  • or a different form of creation

This is not a failure.
It’s information.

Reflection:
What am I being called to create in this season of my life?

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